I can’t even say the number without feeling shame or guilt. But if you asked me two years ago, I would have proudly said how much I’ve spent on luxury bags and how they are such great investments. But now, things have changed, most notably my perspective on it.
Don’t get me wrong—I still love and will always love handbags. I don’t think that will ever change. Ever since I can remember, I’ve loved bags. Handbags will always have a special place in my heart; they are the first thing I notice about people.
In fact, the other day, I saw a woman with a vintage Louis Vuitton bag, and I couldn’t help but admire the bag. I can’t even remember what she looked like or was wearing, but the bag had a spotlight shining on it.
Once I started obsessively collecting bags rather than genuinely enjoying each purchase, I lost control. Somehow, I got sucked into the idea of “collecting” bags and what I thought I needed to have based on what I saw on social media, particularly within the luxury community.
I calculated how much I spent on designer bags, and it’s about $75,000, mostly Chanel, and Louis Vuitton, and that’s just in the past 7-8 years.
What did I learn after spending all that money on bags?
Lesson #1: It was fun and exciting until it wasn’t.
I think the height of luxury was in 2017/2018, when you could enjoy going to the boutiques and treating yourself to a bag or two when the prices weren’t quite astronomical. I genuinely enjoyed walking into Chanel boutiques, touching the bags, and really appreciating its offerings.
I still recall this gorgeous green Mini Reissue. It was around $3,300, and the SA asked if I wanted to try it on because I must have had my mouth open. I miss that. Now, it’s all appointments and waiting in lines, and everything feels super transactional. At least, that’s how it changed for the boutiques I used to go to.
I have some regrets but also not. I think the prices made me turn to the preloved market, and I love finding deals now. However, the preloved market has since become super expensive and sucked the fun out of that too, but that’s another story on its own.
I just miss going to Louis Vuitton, for instance, and knowing the bags were relatively accessible and somewhat affordable, meaning they weren’t like $2,000+ yet for classic canvas pieces.
With the constant price increases and limited stock for these major designer brands, getting a bag isn’t just about saving money for the bag and doing the research; it’s more about building that SA relationship, establishing a purchase history, and being on a waitlist for the next collection, which simply doesn’t excite me anymore.
Lesson #2: It became all about the hunt rather than really understanding why I was buying certain bags.
I think for this community of fellow handbag lovers, we understand each other without judgment. I love that. I also think following luxury YouTubers puts me in a bubble in the sense that I think everyone must be building their designer handbag collection, and so should I.
I got lost in the hunt somehow and felt it wasn’t enough. I needed this in that color, and I needed the Hermès B-K-C. The fact of the matter is… there just aren’t a lot of people in the real world who have such collections. I think in big cities, you certainly see more. Having grown up in Los Angeles and having lived in New York City and the Bay Area, I saw designer bags everywhere.
Once my family and I relocated to a more rural area, I realized I had no place to wear my bags and that people dress super casually. Carrying a designer bag would stand out too much.
As a matter of fact, I wore my Chanel vintage Maxi flap the other day, thinking I should take it out for a spin since it had been so long, and I could literally see almost every single woman staring at it intensely.
Once it became all about collecting, the game, and the journey, I lost control.
Lesson #3: There’s a whole lot of judgment.
Let me be clear: Designer bags still give me a lot of confidence when I wear them.
On the other hand, I feel unfairly judged by people who mistakenly may believe or unfairly perceive me as being frivolous with money. When in fact, I work in the real estate investment industry and am super passionate about personal finance and building wealth.
But they don’t know that, and what they notice is the bag and immediately think I’m superficial. I don’t care what people think, but I do think it’s quite unfair that you get judged just because of what bags you carry.
I also remember calling my home insurance company to maximize coverage for personal belongings and confirming that handbags would be covered. I recall the representative asking exactly how many bags I had and what they were valued at to increase my coverage.
Side note: the good news is that insurance will reimburse you based on the current value, not what you paid for, so at least there’s that silver lining!
Unless you are surrounded by fellow bag lovers like all of us here, people will judge.
Lesson #4: Just because they are “must-haves” doesn’t mean you must have them.
Hermès bags are beautiful and classic, but for me, the ROI has been the worst because I don’t wear them much. I think if I had Constance 18, maybe I would wear it the most due to its size and the fact that it’s a crossbody. As much as I love and appreciate my Hermès bags, I simply prefer smaller crossbody bags for everyday use versus my Birkin or Kelly.
Chanel bags have had the best ROI for me because they allow me to fit in my essentials and are quite easy to put on my shoulder and wear some of them crossbody.
Louis Vuitton vintage bags also win my heart too often. I just love them, and their amazing prices in the preloved market don’t hurt. They are so easy to use, and I don’t have to worry about any scratches.
I bring up these examples because just because certain bags are “must-haves” for your collection does not mean they will work out for you and that they are necessarily worth your money.
Again, if you think about just having them in your collection, that is fine, but for me, I want to wear my bags as much as possible for the best ROI.
Lesson #5: Shoulda, woulda, coulda…
I sometimes wonder if I should have spent all this money. But then again, I don’t know if I would have realized that I needed a lot less than I thought and sold a lot of them if I hadn’t gone through this experience.
- I could have saved or invested $75K in stock or other passive real estate offerings.
- I would have avoided losing money on selling some of these bags.
- I should have controlled my spending and again reinvested that money elsewhere.
But guess what? I do not regret it.
I have learned these valuable lessons, and unless I went through this, I would not have known. I do hope you can learn from my experience and don’t let your buying decisions be impacted by what you see on social media.
In the real world, many people are lucky to own just one Chanel handbag. As Mark Twain once said, “… you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did”.
Oh my goodness, I could have written this myself! Only difference is I’m not an Hermès bag lover, but lust for the scarves. Had, kind of still have, a huge (now maybe just large) collection of LV handbags & Hermès Scarves! Wish I would have invested my $ in real estate. Oh well, we love & we learn. I have to admit, while living with chronic pain most of the time and only being able to wear yoga pants & a t-shirt, a lovely LV bag on my shoulder or cross my aching body, somehow lessened the pain. Yes, it made me feel good. And that to me was worth the money! Bottom line, you should have something (or things) that you sincerely love & bring you joy! Amen and you know what … owning a $5,000 handbag is only my business … and no one else’s!
All of this. 😊 Except I’ve never had any interest in anything Hermes.
I agree with all your lessons. Same experience. Ive learned a lot. Sold a lot and buying at a minimum only the ones on my wishlist (just 7 bags). Bought trends before but ended up selling them because i dont feel comfortable carrying them. I buy medium sized bags because it is what works best for me instead of following the mini bag trend (which is good since medium sized bags sell lower in the preloved market). Moved from the city to the rural area and i dont care (i havent cared in such a long time) about what others think. I wear what i love. Realized that the magic number for my handbag collection is 30. I used to have 50 designer bags plus plenty of non designer ones but already sold and give them away. I feel 30 is best for me to be able to rotate all bags. And lastly i thought that once i get my bkc i would feel content but i just feel this insatiable greed to buy more orange boxes so i hate to admit it but im sliding down the slippery orange slope hahaha but im trying so hard to control the last 7 bags on my wishlist.
I have several luxury bags, but I agree with you. I don’t feel comfortable carrying them.
Then why even buy them you take that opportunity away from people who will feel comfortable wearing them. People need to stop acting like sheep
I have never felt that way, most people you encounter do not know what kind of bag you carry.
I think this used to be true, but with social media and the “investment bags” TikToks, I noticed more people turning their heads to my B’s or K’s in NYC in the same intense way OP shared. I even had a woman visiting from suburban Alabama incorrectly say that my Craie Kelly Pochette looks like a Birkin, which she said she had been wanting. But, I share that only to suggest that I think times have changed with access to information and it can attract a lot of unwanted, unexpected gawks from even the most mundane looking Jane. That part can make someone feel uncomfortable.
Bags arnt investments people are so silly
Lucy, Sarah, Jojo, whatever your name of the minute is. Shush with your petty judgement.
Exactly! It’s obvious that it’s the same person; who does he/she think they’re kidding?🙄
Love this article, I feel like you have placed my recent inner most feelings into words. We recently moved out of state and into our dream home so having to pack and relocate my closet was the biggest most daunting task for me. I used to have an office space where we transformed and entire room with built out closets so I could store my clothes, shoes and purses as well as all the boxes and bags. It was a dream because it was a hidden area, the door itself was access controlled with a camera inside a 2 story office space that was also very secured so I was good until we moved. Now I’m using a guest room to try to duplicate the same but finding that my collection is more of an addiction and expensive hobby. My downfall is I also established great relationships with SA and multiple locations because we traveled so much in the last 5 years that they often text me with new Must Haves and I feel so guilt saying no because I’m a people pleaser. I also moved to a more rural area where it’s dusty but warm and wearing my Chanels is not justice for such outfits or the bag. I don’t even think people know what bags they are! I also reached out to my home insurance, so funny that I finally feel related too. Thank you for your story, makes me feel not so alone ❤️
I think buying anything designer has psychological undertones. I’ve had long term depression since I was a child.
I’d say to my partner that I “needed” a new bag/ shoes etc. He’d point out what I had already and ask me how this new bag / shoes were so different. I could always justify it. Anyway it was my money I was spending.
Being perfectly honest I love the attention buying designer goods gives me. Getting dressed up to go to the shop. The fuss in the shop, the glass of champagne and walking home with the designer shopping bag (going via other designer shops to show off that I’ve made an expensive purchase).
Trouble is once home the thrill is gone. I’ll maybe give the item an unveiling when my partners there then I put the boxed item in a safe place and I’m back to where I was.
Since finding the connection to my need of attention I’ve just been honest with myself. I had neglect in my childhood and I need a more permanent (and less expensive) solution.
We should feel lucky we can afford these things but happiness doesn’t lie within them. We should be wearing them not them wearing us.
its so interesting this article! Many women love handbags, and the space of handbags in general should not be a judgemental one. I cannot see this happening with successful men wearing expensive watches, or buying other “luxuries” . Its a fascinating how much the world of handbags is triggering such emotions.
I find it also, that, if I say’ I make bespoke handbags”, people look at me like-” who needs more bags?!” I have started making luxury bags, because I cloud not afford at the time, moving in London, to buy, but I made it my mission to learn the fine artistry behind this artisan craft, including shoes. I went as far as getting a masters degree in design and then put all my energy into learning the fine craft.It’s not been easy, as a lot of craftsman shield their knowledge, but I have found my ground. It’s fifteen years since that decision and my business its coming up to four years anniversary.
I hope you don’t mind me joining in. I’ve been a reader of this forum for years, and as a designer-maker, my focus has always been on creating handbags with extraordinary qualities, much like the beloved brands mentioned. I have little time to network, no big investors, and no large marketing budgets—just a deep love for craftsmanship. Purse blog has been a very useful source of information about what women look for in bags, and what they like and dislike. If PurseBlog allows it,
I’d love to design few questions and a campaign where those who want to get involved help shape a limited-edition collection.
I’d be truly grateful for your thoughts, and I completely understand any hesitation toward new designers—so no pressure at all. With gratitude, Adriana.
ALL OF THIS 👏👏
Yes, I had a great time purchasing, collecting, and obsessing over bags, until I didn’t. I was addicted to the buying experience, the adrenaline rush, and the beautiful leather smell of a new bag, all of which was intoxicating. However, over time I had too many and they overwhelmed me. Recently, I sold the majority of my collection, and lost money on some, but I was no longer overwhelmed/stressed, and it justified it. Also, while I was aware of influencers, celebrities, etc. they never influenced me because the problem, actually, was that I liked all designers, and all bags.
I completely understand I’m at the point where I have a bag for everyday of the year without repeating am I ashamed no because each bag I bought I could tell you what it was for what outfit it went with and exactly why I bought it and when I look at the special ones I blush because I remember the memories attached to them it’s like perfume to me like when you smell a certain scent and have flashbacks to when you wore it and with who but I am a lil sad cause I could’ve bought a home in full and probably a car to but I don’t know if those would’ve brought me as much happiness
I am with you on this. I have worked hard to be able to buy luxury bags and there should be no further judgment. We all have what makes us happy with our individual “disposable income”. I would never let my pets or a family member go without because of my love for bags and other designer lusts. And I live in a city that has no fashion sense in general (I often refer to it as a “fashion desert”). So I go to other cities or rely on the SAs from those cities to keep me “supplied”. Bottom line, I buy for ME and not for showing off as 95% people in my hometown have no clue about luxury bags (especially my new love….Moynat). I also donate to several animal shelters (I am an animal lover). I do not buy to resell later either. I may feel I have outgrown that bag but may change my mind later as there is definitely a memory or emotion associated with my purchases. I would rather give to a close friend or family member!!! That makes me happy to do so too!!!
Btw, I don’t play the Hermes game either and don’t own one. No judgment to others – just not my kind of bag……..nor do I like the games I’ve heard they play compared to the excellent service at Moynat, Chanel, and Louis Vuitton over the years.
Also I won’t sell them because why buy something to just sell it later on in life. Buying and selling to afford more is what has led to an over saturation in the resell market and a main reason of overconsumption.
Some of us, like myself, had a large collection, but ended up selling a lot. It wasn’t to buy more, but because I had outgrown them & was stressed with such a large collection. This isn’t unusual because it happens all of the time. For ex: why do people buy new homes? Cars? Furniture? Coins, jewelry, etc.? It’s all relative to the stage of life they’re in & what they need/want. As I get older, I no longer want things, but more life experiences. I know many people continue to collect throughout a lifetime, but after a while it becomes frivolous and unimportant.
I agree I hate these people who buy just to sell and buy another. Like if you can’t afford to keep it or don’t see yourself using it until it’s unusable then don’t buy it plain and simple. I wish I had your budget
Great essay, and I can relate to her point about location. I’m in an area for the winter where I see far more designer bags than I do when I’m at home the rest of the year. Years ago a friend said a good haircut, a nice handbag and a nice pair of shoes can make you feel like a million bucks. It’s really true. I spend most of my time in athleisure wear and jeans but I love carrying a nice handbag. My collection of about twenty bags includes LV, Loewe, Gucci, Dior, Goyard, Faure Le Page, Moynat, Prada and Strathberry, accumulated over the past fifteen years since I became an empty nester. Before that it was Coach, Kate Spade and Tory Burch. I’m always browsing and admiring but I don’t feel a need to buy anything these days, especially given the price increases for many brands in the past few years. I guess I’ve achieved purse peace.
Handbags won’t fill that emptiness inside you. But maybe a therapist might.
Honestly, I’m a licensed therapist and it’s one of the most common coping mechanisms woman due when they are depressed or dealing with self esteem issues is to shop to feel brand new. But honestly I’m here for it there problems keep my wallet full so I can make purchases on things I’ll actually end up using and not having to sell later on. Catch me in Bali in spring 💁♀️
Given your lack of grammar and narcissistic response, I’d say if you’re licensed it’s not as a therapist. And if you are, you are an incredibly poor example of one. Shameful.
100% overconsumption of anything is to fill a void. It’s honestly sad. What happened to buying things for there purpose not for a self confidence boost.
So true a lot of these woman are chasing things to fill out there time or they would already know at this age what works for them and what doesn’t. But people like to chase trends and other peoples happiness instead of finding there own
Must be true with the backlash this comment is getting.
Nah its the same person under different made up names replying to their own comments as is common thoughout this entire thread. The lack of grammar and writing style stands out like the proverbial. It is truly sad.
I can totally relate to this!
The excitement of buying luxury bags definitely changes over time, and mindful consumption becomes more important.
We’ve missed you, Angela!
I relate to much of this. I also realized that, for me, much of the joy and excitement was in the hunt. I got offered a Kelly and had an opportunity to do a custom Birkin in Paris. Of course I said yes to both! The experiences were amazing. I was beyond ecstatic. But then I got them home and felt “meh.” These are holy grail bags that I wanted my whole bag-loving life and I just couldn’t get excited about carrying them. It took me a while but I finally realized the chase, the anticipation, imagining the outfits I would build with these bags, etc were far more exciting for me than actually owning the bags.
It sounds like you need to chase something to occupy yourself from thinking about deeper issues from within. And btw Paris won’t let you do both it’s either one or the other.
I work at the Faubourg location and that’s a fireable offense we don’t even offer vips that option.
She didn’t say it was all in one appointment. It could have been two visits?
I was pretty sure San was talking about two different purchasing experiences at Hermes.
Well I just buy limited editions and special pieces and then have an every day bag it makes life a lot more special that way. A birkin and Kelly in every color is to much I have both in red, gold, black for every day and I buy other brands for special occasion purses like for gallas, restaurant openings, and fundraisers. I find it tacky when people use a birkin or large Kelly as a dressy bag or going out purse. The birkin because it’s a tote and the Kelly because it’s daytime formal not really night time formal. Like at night it should be a clutch or a small underarm bag like a Kelly pochette.
I appreciate this article and it hits certain points for me:
Thanks.
I will never understand leaving the buckles unbuckled. It looks sloppy to me. I secretly want to buy a B or K, but have no desire to do all the prepay nonsense.
lol a birkin is made to be a sloppy everyday bag it’s a tote with a lock. You keep it open while in use and locked when not so your stuff doesn’t fall out duh. If you ever get to know one you’ll understand the struggle plus why scratch your hardware for no reason.
Well then just take it as they aren’t made for people like you 💁♀️
Its worse if you are both a purse lover and a watch collector :p
I did the math and spent 88k but this is over a 21 yr period. I stopped with H 14 yrs ago so you do the math.
If I invested that money in the stock market, it probably would have been wiped out give the black swan dive a few years back or my ex would have gotten it during the divorce.
So no, no regrets. But thankfully I had the foresight to collect when I did and more importantly also stop when I did
I am a European that when moved to NYC started obsessing about collecting luxury bags. Everyone around me was wearing one and I felt it was what was expected of me In certain circles. I always thought that I was someone not being influenced by societal pressure but when returning to my South European country, I realized i am. I started feeling ashamed of carrying those bags out in certain circles. Here instead of a status symbol, those bags are looked down as “ new rich” trying to hard to show off her new money, whereas aristocrats and really old rich families could care less about carrying on brands. Their prestige is in their last names and properties. And wearing those handbags automatically made you be looked down in some circles.
Great article- Thanks for sharing!
Wow! I feel 100% same!!!! I have so many bags that scream bitchy lol .. so many times I’m dressed and leaving the house and I turn around and put my Hermes back and grab my Luis or my Chanel, Sounds crazy, but it is the truth. Selling is crazy too because these second hand companies are now taking way too much to sell on their platforms.. best bet is to hold on for granddaughters I guess
Variety is the spice of life.
Hear you loud and clear😊. I have done the same thing. Until my concience got the better of me about 2 years ago. I was noticing the ridiculous price increases on bags I know I paid a lot less for not that long ago. Besides, I felt the good designs were not there anymore and it felt like mass production even by the major designer brands. Today I find myself looking for more interesting bags that are well crafted but at a more normal price point. It feels so much better to carry a great looking bag that no one knows about. I have contemplated selling quite a few of my bags this Year. I have realised, the hard way/health issues, that you cannot take it with you to the grave. But I must admit it has been great fun.
This! 👏👏👏
Give that $$ to food and banks.
They really need it.
No I don’t owe them anything what do they contribute to more eyesores half the people that go to food banks can afford to go the store they should contribute to society not leech off it
Why do you assume many people can’t or don’t do both? Owning great bags and being philanthropic are not mutually exclusive. The over abundance of “input” and lack of critical thinking by others appears to be the real problem.
Philanthropy by the rich isn’t to help people it’s to be seen and ads to portfolios. Donations cover the food and party then the leftovers go to the actual cause. Philanthropy is a joke
Wow who hurt you!
I meant food banks. Thanks.
Why are you here if that’s how you feel?
Couldn’t agree more!!! Prices are on steroids and at the end of the day they’re just bags…the thing that helps you carry your house around, any will do!
The point of the price increase is to keep aspirational shoppers away the top ten percent makeup most of the revenue and they don’t like seeing commoners wear there things. That’s why the price increases happen we are trying to slowly purge the one time buyers or the buy and sell type from our stores. We will eventually no longer service products that are used without the person knowing the account the original purchase was made under. Right now we are in the process of buying our own used bags to get them out of circulation and ban the people who are selling them.
You act like you own the company. A company that could care less about their employees who are always replaceable.
Exactly buy with a purpose reselling like fashionephile has basically turned into Plato’s closet and basically a thrift store at this point
Wow… I had this exact conversation with my husband just this morning! I was telling him that I’m considering selling my collection of Hermès Birkins and Kellys—not because I don’t love them, but because they’re becoming increasingly impractical for me. My Chanel and Louis Vuitton bags, on the other hand, are on constant rotation. They’re elegant, functional, and effortless—no need to stress over an accidental spill.
And when it comes to the boutique experience, I completely understand where you’re coming from. Here in Vegas, the Chanel and LV boutiques still offer exceptional service, making every visit an absolute pleasure. But for me, Hermès bags are starting to lose their appeal in that regard as well.
Why just keep them there heirloom bags and even if you don’t have someone to pass them onto keep them trends change and the resell market is already saturated why add more items to a market that’s basically an upper class land field if it’s functional then use it
I would love to buy a pre-loved B or K!
What’s stopping you the resell market is beyond oversaturated. And it’s not like it’s some special service when we offer them in boutique it’s literally buy it or don’t there’s always someone who will.
Louis Vuitton is good for special occasions like niche stuff and luggage not clothes.
Chanel is good for more business brunch and lunch bags and matching sets.
Hermes is good for everyday casual bags and clothes wise not really there cashmere is to thin but there silks are top notch.
I used to like houses but it’s to plasticky feeling for me plus there quality control isn’t the best kinda like Louis Vuitton but Louis Vuitton texture wise feels better to me plus they make returns for defects easier than goyard.
Facts I only hate Chanel because of there repair rules. Like honestly repair and longevity should always be a priority in luxury but I guess they don’t care because people rather resell there stuff and and buy new then care for there items which is gross.
I too could have written this article. I love my handbags and have a large collection(?) but since I retired, I find myself gravitating to only a few of them. I have a Prada bag that I adore, but never use because I’m afraid to scratch it. It’s one of the few purchases I regret
Best article… you are 100% right!! I have about 10 luxury bags. A lot was going this time on my mind. I had fun but I don’t think I keep buying anymore.
I am so agree with you! You read my mind.
Thank you!
I have bought many bags over the years, LV, Chanel, Fendi, Gucci, Dior, Valentino, Hermes… I love them all. I still wear them all. I try to take good care of them and enjoy them as much as possible. A new member has never meant not using older ones for me.
I feel seen! I always kept a rotation of around 35-40 bags, but realized some I would only carry once a year. I’ve recently culled my collection down to around 22 or 24 and feel I can cull a few more. I used some of the money from selling my other bags to get the Birkin 35 I’ve always wanted, but one of those is enough. The limited edition bags are hard to let go of, but I’m getting there and don’t miss the ones that are gone.
I’m not remembering the whole story but your post reminds me of a story about a woman dropping designer names in the context of her daughter, trying to impress the mother of an eligible young man. The mother said to my friend, “I don’t want a high-maintenance girl for my son.”
Y’all need a therapist it seems you people shop to fill a void and not for purpose or functionality. It’s weird
I’m not sure why you’re here, Kyle?
Each person loves bags in their own way, has a different budget, aesthetic, desire, etc…
You seem to be here just for the purpose of passing a full site condemnation of each and every bag lover. Weird. I think you stumbled across the wrong website.
Seems Kylee’s (if thats the real name) and the support trolls (or her in multiple names) have arrived enmasse. 🙄
Jeez louise Helen go buy another bag 😂
I bet she’s just gonna sell it later anyway 😭😂😂😂😂
Helen you sound hurt I’ll send my thoughts and prayers. Sorry not sorry for calling out your emptiness that will never be filled☺️
It seemed you brought some Instagram troll energy over to the purse blog and I’m not sure why. It’s unfortunate because that’s not what this blog is about. You’re actually taking the time to call individual people out who are supporting the writer. And you didn’t stumble upon it, you went to it, which is quite confusing. Do you go to other blogs as well?
You need help Helen. Oprah, Dr phill somebody help I think Helen’s having a breakdown over her coping mechanism.
lol I love white chicks 😭😭😭😂
Great piece, but just a word of caution that everyone should check their own insurance policy to see what kind of monetary compensation you may receive in the case of a theft. Some might be original purchase value, some might be replacement value, etc. – every policy is different so you have to read the fine print on your own policy.
This article hits so close to home for me, I even read almost all the comments below, that’s how much this topic is close to heart for me. I have stopped buying designer bags but have switched to jewellery …. My question to this community is – is it considered better (a better judgement, better choice) to spend on expensive jewellery (bulgari, cartier, chopard, van cleef) ? Because there too , we are overpaying for the brands name … First I told myself its a more mature choice to buy jewellery instead of bags, but now im not so sure … Could be buying jewellery from local artisans, still good materials and same carat weight without big names attached and hence spending less… What are your thoughts ?
I can understand bag buying shaming to a point. A Louis Vuitton bag is a splurge, but some Birkins cost more than what an enire family might make in a year. When put into that perspective, I get it. Plus as someone else said, I would never spend years buying Hermes accessories I don’t want or need, just to be “invited” to buy a bright orange Birkin.