I think it’s perfectly fine to be attention whoring once in a while. Steal that attention from other gals and put yourself in the spotlight… go ahead, make them jealous. I know you ladies just love to stand out of the crowd, some more, some less, some often, some occasionally, but deep down inside, you all have the primal drive to outrun the fellow female Homo sapiens in the race for the prime male flesh. Denial is futile. In order to make your game a little easier, I’d personally suggest the Felix Rey Mini Metal Mesh Ruffle Bag. This small evening number stood out enough to catch our attention at the Bendel store, with its twinkling mesh exterior, reflecting the light beams like it was its only purpose. This bag would do great with a long black evening dress, and with its shine, you are guaranteed to attract everyone’s looks in the room that you bless with your attendance. For $195, available in gold, silver, bronze, or black.